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To most people in
the Western world, death is merely the demarcation between the
material world of the living
and the mysterious world of the dead. Once they have crossed over,
there is no return to the realm of the living. Few people have
a clear picture of the other side and there are many conflicting
ideas about what goes on there. The lack of understanding about
what occurs before, during, and after death has lead to a great
deal of denial, avoidance, and unnecessary fear. In opposition
to this, there are some who even glorify death, and many individuals
find themselves somewhere in the middle believing it is just a
natural process that does not require any preparation. According
to one Buddhist master: "People often make the mistake of
being frivolous about death and think, 'Oh well, death happens
to everybody. It's not a big deal, it's natural. It'll be fine.
'That's a nice theory until one is dying" (Rinpoche 8). The
importance of developing a true awareness of death is one of the
fundamental concepts behind Buddhism. Buddhists also believe that
this awareness offers benefits to the living. It can help release
us from unnecessary attachments that cause suffering, create compassion
for other beings, put us in touch with important unseen energies,
and force us to be more responsible for our actions on this planet.
In actuality, an awareness of death can bring about a much greater
appreciation for life.
While Buddhism is
open to teaching this "awareness" to
others, it is not the right religion for everyone. In fact, the
Dalai Lama suggests that people should thoroughly explore the religions
of their own culture before abandoning them for Buddhist beliefs.
This is partly due to the fact that most Buddhists realize that
a person's choice of religion is not as important as the strength
of their faith. Another core concept of Buddhism is that anyone
can find happiness by following the teachings of the Four Noble
Truths, since they "can be practiced by every understanding
person, irrespective of his or her religious beliefs" (Parry
and Ryan 76). However, the ever-growing hunger in Western society
for Eastern spiritual experiences may point to the fact that there
is still something missing from many modern Western traditions.
I believe that "something" may be a more fulfilling answer
to the question of what really happens to us when we die.
Buddhism is based
on the teachings and personal experiences of Siddhartha Gautama,
who lived in India around twenty-five
hundred years ago. The son of a wealthy king, he left his wife
and family to became a wandering monk in search of enlightenment.
After pursuing various Hindu spiritual practices, Siddhartha finally
found his own path to enlightenment, which has come to be known
as "the Middle Way" between "a life of unbridled
sensuous enjoyment (hedonism) and a life of extreme self-denial
(asceticism)" (Lester 855). By practicing moderation, morality,
and meditation, he finally "achieved an insight by which he
became know as the Buddha or 'the Awakened One.' After this awakening,
he continued to wander as a monk-teacher, encouraging others to
follow the path he discovered to nirvana, the cessation of suffering" (860).
Since the time of
Siddhartha, Buddhism has grown into a variety of different traditions
that are unified by such
principles as the Four Noble Truths. The Buddha taught that the
failure to understand this basic teaching is what keeps people
tied to the continuous cycle of death and rebirth. The Four Noble
Truths are: 1) there is suffering, 2) suffering is caused by desire,
3) the cessation of desire leads to the cessation of suffering,
and 4) there is a path that can lead to the cessation of all desire.
This path is known as the Noble Eight-Fold Path, which encourages
wisdom (right views and right intents), morality (right speech,
conduct, and livelihood), and mental discipline (right effort,
right mindfulness, and right concentration). If the practitioner
follows this path, they can eventually achieve nirvana. "Nirvana
is the freedom from future rebirth, old age, and death. It is said
to be blissful, but not in any sense of worldly pleasure or, for
that matter, any pleasure defined by other than the absence of
suffering" (Lester 908).
This "suffering," or dukha, that can be overcome by following the Eight-Fold
Path is directly linked to our deep desire for permanence. Until
we
can detach ourselves from this desire, we will continue to
experience many of the different types of suffering in this world.
From the Buddhist viewpoint:
Being born is
suffering; growth is suffering, experiencing disease is suffering;
growing old is suffering and
dying is suffering. Subtler than physical pain is the suffering
of dissatisfaction, the unhappiness occasioned by not having
what we want and having what we do not want. There is anxiety
(mental
suffering) even in the experience of pleasure and satisfaction–the
knowing or at least apprehension that it will not last. There is
fear of failure, loss of status, loss of self-worth, loss of loved
ones, loss of property. Deep down, there is a vague and gnawing
anxiety about death–not only the prospect of life ending
but of ultimate meaninglessness. (Lester 904)
The world we live in is in constant flux, everything
is impermanent, and at each moment were are moving closer to our
own death.
Since Buddhists see
everything as being impermanent, they do not believe in the existence
of what others might call
a "soul." Instead they refer to this aspect of human
beings as the "no-self." "Ultimately, there exists
only an ever-changing combination of five aggregates–matter, sensations,
perceptions, mental formations, consciousness–rhythmically forming
a psychophysical configuration" (Kramer 51-52). The union
of these five aggregates, elements, or categories is what makes
up the personality, the "I" that many people think actually
exists, but is in fact just a projection of the mind. At the time
of death there is a "dissolution," the bonds are broken,
yet the life stream continues. According to professor of Buddhist
Religion Eva K. Neumaier-Dargyay, "One has to think of these
five categories as being like streams whose composition is constantly
changing. The momentum in each stream drives the process forward
and guarantees its continuation beyond the individual's death" (90).
The direction of this momentum is directly driven by the individual's
karma and their level of "awareness" at the time of their
death.
Karma, or action,
is the energy that is generated by human thoughts, word and deeds.
It can be positive, negative
or meditative, and can have a profound affect on the next incarnation
of any sentient being. "Negative karma results in rebirth
in one of the three lower realms (the hells, the ghost realms,
or the animal world); positive karma produces rebirth in the human,
demigod or sensual god worlds; and meditative karma brings rebirth
in the higher heavens of form and formlessness" (Mullin 17).
While the concept
of rebirth is common among all Buddhist traditions, there is
some discrepancy as to the actual
route that is taken to the next life. In early Buddhism, "the
Pali tradition denies that any time elapses between the moment
of death and the new embodiment. Death and rebirth, in the form
of conception, follow each other without interruption." There
is no intermediate stage between the separation of the five aggregates,
and their reformation in the next existence. "It is like the
flame of a candle igniting another candle. In both cases the earlier
process comes to an end, yet provokes another process that has
structural similarity to the first one" (Neumaier-Dargyay
90).
The Hinayana or Theraveda tradition expands
on this theory with the addition of an intermediate state between
death and rebirth called antarabhava (Sanskrit), bardo (Tibetan)
or the gap. According to the Adhidharmakosha, a fifth century C.E. Theraveda encyclopedia of Buddhist
knowledge and practice, the intermediary being that exists between
destinations is said to possess the following characteristics:
it is visible only to creatures of similar
spiritual accomplishment; it has complete sensory faculties (whereby
the tactile bodily feelings are of an illusionary nature); it is
unencumbered by material obstacles and distances. However, unlike The
Tibetan Book of the Dead, which
assumes that the intermediary being has the ability to affect rebirth
or avoid it all together, the Adhidharmakosha >views
the path of the intermediary being as being predestined by
its karma. (Neumaier-Dargyay 92)
Therefore, the Theraveda tradition believes
that once an individual has entered the intermediate state of the bardo,
the outcome of their next incarnation has already been determined.
The Mahayana school of Buddhism holds
a similar view. It also confirms the concept of an intermediary
state where the five aggregates are transformed into an intermediary
being that "is like a clone of the deceased one, so
that it can relive some of the experiences of the former." These
experiences have even been documented by advanced disciples of
Mahayana Buddhism "who actualized nirvana after death while
dwelling in a state that resembled the intermediary state" (Neumaier-Dargyay
93).
The Buddhist tradition that has received the
most attention in the West recently is the Vajrayana tradition,
which is practiced in Tibet. One of the reasons for the increased
interest in this particular tradition has been the publication
of various translations and explanations of The Tibetan Book
of the Dead, which specifies the details of the dying process and
what can be expected in the afterlife. The teachings are also appealing
to people, because they promise additional benefits for the transitory
being. If the being is truly "aware" in the bardo, and does not act out of fear, they will be presented
with numerous opportunities to avoid rebirth. If these are all
passed up, then they will still be given the chance to choose the
best possible circumstances for their next incarnation. Since there
are so many pitfalls along the way, Tibetan Buddhist's believe
it is important to become very familiar with the bardo,
before entering it at the time of death. In addition to experiencing
it through meditation, it can also be read about in the Bardo
Thötröl.
The Bardo Thötröl,
which is more commonly known in the West as The Tibetan
Book of the Dead, or Liberation
Through Hearing in the Bardo,
is used as a guide through the dying process. It is read aloud
to the dying person to alert them to what is occurring and to
keep them focused in the right direction. It is read continuously
for forty-nine days, since this is the length of time one stays
in the bardo if one has not found one's way towards enlightenment,
or has mistakenly taken a wrong turn into a lower realm. The
reading of the Bardo Thötröl is
considered especially important for those who may have become
confused by a serious illness or sudden death, and for those
who have not been rigorous about their meditation practice. In
addition to helping the deceased recognize auspicious signposts
and opportunities, it also helps to reassure them during the
inevitable moments of uncertainty.
The teachings of the
bardo are also applicable in our daily lives. According to Sogyal
Rinpoche: "The word
'bardo' is commonly used to denote the intermediate state between
death and rebirth, but in reality bardo are occurring continuously
throughout both life and death, and are junctures when the possibility of liberation,
or enlightenment, is heightened" (11). Yet, if we are
unprepared for these heightened moments in time, we may be afraid
to go forward, afraid to jump off the precipice, and will miss
out on some great opportunities. Contemplating death can dispel
these fears and can bring about many other forms of awareness.
The three major Buddhist
traditions each have a slightly different idea about the benefits
behind building death
awareness. The Theraveda tradition, which is primarily practiced
by professional monks, uses an awareness of death to help "develop
a sense of moderation, renunciation and nonattachment." They
believe that an untrained mind tends to elevate the importance
of pleasurable events and denigrate unpleasant occurrences. This
leads to either excess attachment or unnecessary aversion, which
can have a direct effect on one's karma. "Training in death
awareness causes us to see things in a more calm, undisturbed and
unaffected light, providing us with a deeper sense or moderation
in interaction" (Mullin 20).
The Mahayana tradition,
which is accessible to professionals and lay practitioners alike,
uses death awareness
to further their fundamental interest in compassion. Practitioners
see this awareness as an aid to helping people to comprehend the
impermanence of all other beings. "When the trainee has a
deeply rooted awareness of death it is easy for him/her to feel
patience toward the harms caused by others, and to feel love and
compassion towards them. Seeing their impermanent nature, he/she
responds with great compassion toward any act based on ignorance" (Mullin
21).
The Vajrayana school
believes that practitioners can meditate on death and actually
experience its various stages
before they die. While the idea of intentionally experiencing death
may seem unthinkable to many in the West, practitioners of Tantra
see it as being extremely beneficial. Not only does it prepare
the person for the actual death experience, but it also helps to
teach them about "subtle energy channels, energies and points
of the subtle body, the manipulation of the sexual substances and
the invoking of the most refined bodily energies and levels of
consciousness," which greatly accelerates the ability to achieve "full
Buddhahood in one lifetime" (Mullin 21).
While contemplating death may not bring enlightenment
to everyone, there is no doubt that enhancing our awareness has
many benefits for Westerners. Instead of attempting to hide from
death, we may be able to look to it as a teacher. The moment of
death does not always have to be perceived as a great defeat or
tragedy. It does not have to bring us pain and sorrow. If we can
learn to view death from the Buddhist perspective, we may also
find it easier to support those who are dying, to offer them comfort
and the knowledge that there are many positive possibilities ahead.
Maybe then we will be able put the Buddhist lesson of non-attachment
into practice and learn to let go of our loved ones when the time
has come. They are going on to a new life, and we should send them
off with all the support and love that we can offer. The time of
death is a time of great transformation and holds many opportunities
for any sentient being who is aware.
Works Cited
Kramer, Kenneth. The Sacred Art of Dying:
How World Religions Understand Death.
New York: Paulist Press, 1988.
Lester, Robert C. "Buddhism:
The Path to Nirvana." Religious Traditions of the World: A Journey
through Africa, Mesoamerica, North America, Judaism, Christianity,
Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, China, and Japan.
Ed. H. Byron Earhart. San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco, 1993.
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Mullin, Glenn H. Death and Dying: The Tibetan
Tradition. Boston: Arkana Penguin, 1986.
Neumaier-Dargyay, Eva
K. "Buddhism." Life
after Death in World Religions.
Ed. Harold Coward. Maryknoll, NY: Orbis, 1997. 87-104.
Parry, Joan K., and Angela Shen Ryan. A Cross-Cultural
Look at Death, Dying, and Religion.
The Nelson-Hall Series in Social Work. Chicago, IL: Nelson-Hall,
1995.
Rinpoche, Sogyal. The Tibetan Book of Living
and Dying. Eds. Patrick Gaffney and Andrew Harvey. San Francisco:
Harper San Francisco, 1993.
Other Suggested Reading
Hodge, Stephen and Martin Boord. The Illustrated Tibetan Book of the Dead: A New Translation with Commentary. New York: Sterling, 1999.
Parkes, Colin Murray, Pittu Laungani, and Bill Young, Ed. Death and Bereavement across Cultures. London and New York: Routledge, 1997.
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